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FLUENT LOVE
— Gordon Roddick
FLUENT LOVE
How much it meant.
Don’t talk bollocks.
Passion is not something you can teach.
It is as much about input – the conversation of imaginative men (women and children not excluded) has a rhythm, a phrase that follows a thought and precedes the development of further thought … try not to be a cunt.
The great beauty in the English language, innumerable ways of continuing the graphic with explosive, the lyrical, the loving with the spiritual – like dogs nuzzling, cleaning, co-piloting thoughts into the ether of creativity.
The smug grin of a thought well described, the laughter as others connect with the thought well received, a light of recognition, a delight of recognition switched on, triggered by words.
In my life, I had no one to disappoint or to let down. Spectres did not haunt me. I very ably created my own prissy set of standards: hesitant, over-polite, submissive. I only became attractive (to myself) when I broke out of that and had bursts of rip-roaring, disgusting behaviour. It was funny and hurt no one.
Dare to live completely. I dare you.
Words are very good, but it is actions going forward that count!
A running theme. There are no rules.
There was a running theme through my friendships, and it was that of anarchy. I just loved people who were clear and definite in the proposition of life.
What do you want to do with your life?
I must always write this way. I must always feel – and deeply.
If you want to be happy, try never to be negative. As a plan, it is unproductive and does not work.
Pay no attention to the rules – be anarchic. My definition of anarchy is 'do what you want but don't hurt anyone in the doing’.
Dreams are nothing if not acted upon and turned into reality.
From the ability to fail. Not a conscious fear of failure, just terror of everyday life.
Search out the pretensions, the rubbish, the gloss, the whitewash, the emulsions of life covering the real feeling, real examination, real creativity
So begins a new process designed to wake up your creative impulse.
Don't lead a life consumed by triviality. Let others do that.
Keep fixed on the important things like love, loving and being loved.
Give service and meditate if you can.
Only develop friendships with people you admire. I admired people who broke the rules when the rules made no sense!
Above all, surround yourself with friends who make you laugh, especially if you live with them. When they no longer make you laugh, throw them out and recycle them.
Contribute. Be bold!
We are never fucking brave enough.
Life from the other end.
Live by your own conventions.
More symptoms of what my inner engine reveals – nothing ordered, nothing built on logic.
Saying nothing must be saying something.
Passion is the master of all disciplines.
Passion is always attractive.
Passion is one of the prime motivators and the best in the field of all the various disciplines.
Build moral integrity where none previously existed. It's not hard to know where to begin. Here. Just light.
